Success vs. Greatness

Many people in our world make decisions in their lives based on becoming successful. Parents and society make success the primary goal for the next generation. Most of us judge and either accept or reject our peers based on "worldly success," which for most means; a good job that earns lots of money, becoming famous (a household name), getting what we want, and being concerned about what we will receive. Basically, "worldly success" is an all about me attitude!

Dr. Tim Kimmel in his book, Raising Kids for True Greatness gives us another alternative. He is a proponent of raising kids for greatness not success. Dr. Kimmel suggests that true greatness:

• Looks upward, then outward.
• Looks for God's agenda.
• Celebrates altruism.
• Focuses on giving.
• Grieves over the injustices in the world.
• Makes a lasting impact in the world. (XII)

These are the qualities of our great spiritual leaders and our peace-makers. They are the Mother Teresa's among us. They are our neighbors who are behind the scenes feeding the hungry, sewing blankets for the homeless, working for social justice, and becoming the voice for the voiceless.

Our media bombards us with the tragedies in our world, until it is overshadowed by the infidelities and scandalous lives of our "successful." They pull us into the trap of worldly success as they bypass the millions of everyday great people who truly make a difference in our neighborhoods, communities, and in our world.

I encourage you to evaluate your life, is it one focused solely on worldly success or is it a life destine for greatness.

Don't be mistaken, there is nothing wrong with financial success and being proud of one's accomplishments. In fact, spiritually it is our heritage to live a life of abundance. It is when that success becomes paramount in our lives and the basic needs of those around us go unnoticed and unmet. We become so self-centered, we forget we are here to serve.

© 2010 by Becky Benes
www.onenessoflife.com