The more I focus on the idea of commitment, I find that people who make a commitment to do anything create a sense of purpose in their life. And when people have a sense of purpose, they seem to be happier.
Perhaps this is the idea of goal setting. To set a goal and move toward that goal, gives one a reason to get out of bed in the morning. It also awakens an inner strength to overcome obstacles in ones life; especially, if the goal has been shared with others.
Once a goal is achieved, there is a sense of accomplishment and empowerment. The "I did it!" dance is danced. An inner knowing fills our being and flows out to others. Commitment gives purpose, leads to happiness, which leads to confidence.
I encourage you to test this theory. Make a commitment to do something, learn something, accomplish something; share it with friends; then follow through. Let me know if you find purpose and experience inner happiness.
© 2010 by Becky Benes
www.onenessoflife.com
Commitment is huge in creating happiness in life. We can set goals, but if we don’t commit to them, where is the motivation to get through the obstacles or lengthy periods of sometimes endless activities to bring those goals to fruition?
ReplyDeleteOne thing I’ve found with commitment is that “It’s easy to say ‘no’, when there’s a greater ‘yes’ burning inside.” (Stephen Covey). When there is no ‘yes’ burning inside to keep us on track, it’s easy to get distracted and find yourself walking someone else’s path and goals. Find your “Yes!” and that’s the beginning seed for commitment.
Nice Blog, Becky!